Sex experts weigh in on our list of the best long distance sex toys and app controlled vibrators that are perfect for long-distance couples.

Just because your partner is far away, doesn’t mean your orgasms have to be!

By Corinne Sullivan and Veronica LopezPublished: Mar 13, 2025 Save Article-

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We-Vibe Sync O

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Lovense Lush 3

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• Can be worn during solo play or partnered sex

• External arm doesn’t always stayed pressed against the clit

• May move out of place during partnered sex, per some reviewers

• App comes with tons of cool features

• Insertable section stays in place well, according to reviews

• External arm doesn’t vibe as powerfully as some would like

• Some testers wish it were less rigid

• Pretty discreet, so great for public play

• Can be controlled so many different ways

• Not as powerful or rumbly as some had hoped

• Only has four manual mode settings

• Pairs with a masturbation sleeve

• Curved shaft both vibes and rotates

• Def not the quietest toy

• Feels a bit bulky, per some testers

• Actually whisper-quiet

• Allows for hands-free play

• Silicone attachment could be bigger

• Only splashproof, not waterproof

• Comes in a range of sizes

• App lets you set up unlimited vibration patterns

• Might be a lil too noisy for public use

• Some reviewers experienced charging issues

• Provides “pleasure data” right on your phone

• Allows you (and your partner!) to better understand how you get off

• Def not cheap!

• May be too techy for some folks

• Really does simulate the feeling of a blow job, per reviewers

• Comes with 3 contraction strengths and 7 vibe options

• Uses porous TPE material for the sleeve, which can’t be fully sanitized

• Def not the quietest toy

• Has powerful motors on each end for versatility

• So easy to shape and bend

• May be too girthy for some folks

• Motors can’t be controlled separately through app

• Stays in place with the help of a magnet

• Great for those who <3 deep, rumbly vibes

• Can get a tad noisy on highest setting

• Included remote doesn’t have the best range

• Has built-in touchpads that respond to your body

• Provides precise stimulation where you need it most

• Noisier than other options

• Setting up the app can be a lil tricky

• Interchangeable mouths provide v different sensations

• Suction action ranges from gentle to intense

• Vibes are def more buzzy than rumbly

• Testers say vibrations tend to go into the handle

• Won’t exceed 40 decibels (even on the highest setting)

• So powerful for such a petite toy

• Doesn’t pack quite the same *oomph* as a larger wand

• App control can be a lil glitchy

• Two-way communication system is srsly innovative

• Lightweight with an ergonomic handle

• Device pairing can get a lil glitchy, per testers

• Noisier than some would like

Veronica Lopez is the sex and relationships editor at Cosmopolitan across print and digital. She has eight years of experience covering all things sex tech, dating, single life, breakups, and more.

Gigi Engle is a COSRT-registered, GSRD-accredited sex and relationships psychotherapist, sex educator, and award-winning author. She’s also a regular contributor to Cosmopolitan—you can find her work here.

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