These are our favorite gender-inclusive vibrators, wand massagers, and sleeves to give you and your partner(s) a helping hand. Photograph: Lelo

Lelo

Sona 2 Cruise

$159$127(20% off)Lelo

$159$119(25% off)Amazon

$120$90(25% off)Target

Suction toys are life-changing if you’ve never used one before, and after testing dozens of them, I can say with certainty that the Sona 2 Cruise is the absolute best high-end suction toy on the market. It’s one I kept reaching for even outside of testing hours. The body fits in my hand perfectly, the buttons are in places that make sense, and it has a variety of intensities well-suited to just about any preference.

The Cruise part of the name refers to Lelo’s Cruise Control technology, which makes the toy increase intensity when you press it hard against your body. It’s a smart sex toy, and it’s my number one recommendation for anyone looking to try something new and something ultra-quiet. Unlike many suction toys that can be noisy, the Sona 2, like all of Lelo’s products, is practically silent.

Body is made from food-grade silicone. Good for all bodies, targeted suction stimulation for the clitoris, frenulum, or nipples.

Photograph: Magic WandMagic Wand

Micro

$65Amazon

$90Lovehoney

I know what you might be thinking, “But it’s so smol!” You know what else is small? Hummingbirds, grapes, and puppies. So don’t let the smallness of anything, especially this Magic Wand Micro, cause alarm or assumption. Like all wands, the broad head of the Magic Wand Micro delivers rumbles galore that don’t just stimulate the clitoris but the entire vulva—and for a whopping three hours, when fully charged. It’s also USB rechargeable, so take that, outlet-needy wand vibrators!

Unlike some other wands—like this one’s older siblings—there’s no need to be near an outlet for your entire body to feel the surge of pleasure everywhere. Nor will you feel like you have an extra limb in bed with you, thanks to its diminutive size that can easily be wielded about without fear of knocking yourself or a partner in the head. Its size also makes it travel-ready, meaning lunchtime wanks during the workday can become a daily practice. Fun fact: Feminist pornographer Erika Lust has made masturbation breaks a permanent policy in her company, so it’s not exactly unheard of or even vulgar to rub one out when you need a quick de-stress session. I have had dozens of wand vibrators in my life, but this one, as Renee Zellweger would say, “had me at hello.”

Head is made from food-grade silicone tested to FDA standards. Great for all genitals.

Photograph: DameDame

Pom Flexible Vibrator

$95Amazon

$109Dame

The Dame Pom (8/10, WPT123 Recommends) is a pocket-sized, waterproof vibrator with five vibration patterns, five intensity settings, and a soft, squishy body meant to contour to various erogenous zones. The vibrations resonate throughout the toy. But they’re concentrated at the tip where there’s a slight ridge in the design that’s meant to land perfectly on the clitoris or other spots that rely on precision, so you get targeted, but also broader stimulation, all in one toy. Experimenting with the intensities, vibration modes, and even how you touch it to your (or someone else’s) body can be a lot of fun.

The Pom’s intuitive, ergonomic shape makes it easy to use in the heat of the moment. The button layout is simple. You can easily feel which button is which without looking (a huge plus), so you can rapidly switch between modes and intensities.

Made from platinum-cured medical-grade silicone. Great for all genitals.

Photograph: CraveCrave

Vesper Mini

$109Crave

In a society where things tend to get bigger, Crave decided to take the iconic Vesper and scale it down, creating the Vesper Mini (9/10, WPT123 Recommends). Like its original model and its second incarnation, the Vesper 2, the Mini is just as discreet and stylish, while packing a whole lot of punch. The Mini, which is equal parts vibrator and necklace, has three speed intensities and one pattern option to choose from, is 100 percent waterproof, and because it’s made of polished 316L surgical stainless steel with a nickel-free plating, it’s body-safe. It’s a must-have if you prefer your sexual pleasure to be highly sophisticated, elegant, and wearable.

USB-C rechargeable, stainless steel. Great for all external erogenous zones.

Photograph: Love HoneyWe-Vibe

Nova 2

$159Amazon

$159Lovehoney

Some rabbit vibrators overdo it when it comes to features, but the We-Vibe Nova 2 doesn’t. It’s a great, no-frills rabbit vibe with a flexible external arm that keeps constant contact with the clitoris, while the inside arm is curved perfectly for maximum G-spot stimulation. It also has a snug fit, so you can lie back and use the We-Connect app to control the vibrations and patterns, making it essentially hands-free in that position. The app can also be used for long-distance fun, allowing your partner to control the Nova 2 from anywhere in the world.

Made from body-safe silicone. Great for those with a vulva.

Courtesy of b-Vibeb-Vibe

Rimming Plug Petite

$95Amazon

$160b-Vibe

If you’ve been flirting with anal play, then you need to look into b-Vibe. Founded by Alicia Sinclair, the mastermind behind Le Wand, b-Vibe is the place to go for all your backdoor fun, especially if you’re a newbie. For me, the Rimming Plug Petite was a game changer when I started dipping my toe into anal waters. It’s not just a small vibrating butt plug, but has beads in the base that stimulate the anus in a subtle, yet really enjoyable way which helps to relax the anal canal. It also has a remote control that can be used from up to 30 feet away, so you can explore hands-free fun on your own or with a partner. You want to make lube a part of the equation to minimize the possibility of microtears and/or pain. (Read our Best Lubes guide.)

USB-A rechargeable, made from medical-grade silicone. Excellent for anyone looking to experiment with anal stimulation.

Photograph: LeloLelo

Enigma

$199$139(30% off)Amazon

$199Lelo

Lelo’s Enigma is a weird-looking toy. It not only looks like some device a Stormtrooper would keep under their pillow to, well, who even knows, but looks aside, I can say this: I had one of the hardest and quickest orgasms of my life with this toy. Even after I climaxed, I sat there for 20 minutes wondering what had just happened. To this day, I don’t know if it was a blended orgasm, a triple orgasm, or some religious experience that only a heathen can have in the perfect setting.

Like the Rabbit vibrator before it, the Enigma is designed to stimulate both the clitoris and the G-spot. But instead of relying solely on vibration, the Enigma’s clitoral stimulationarm contains a powerful air pulse mechanism for providing suction that imitates the sensation of receiving oral sex. The bigger, rounder end of the toy is where the vibration motor lives. Its body is flexible enough that you can use just one end or the other at a time, but if you use them together, it’s an intense experience, to say the least. Even going slow, the Enigma fires you off into space at warp speed—in a good way. That said, the vibration end is a bit thick at its widest point, so if you’re not comfortable with large-diameter toys, take it slow and easy. Use lots of lube.

Made from food-grade silicone, tested to FDA standards. Best for G-spot and clitoral stimulation.

Courtesy of Hot OctopussHot Octopuss

Kurve

$100Amazon

$100Hot Octopuss

What I love most about this G-spot vibrator by Hot Octopuss is that it can be used by anyone who loves internal stimulation. The silicone shaft and head of the Kurve are soft and flexible. When fully charged, it offers two hours of runtime so you can explore every speed combination (there are 25), as well as the five patterns. It also divides the vibrations into treble (high-frequency) and bass, so you can choose stimulation that’s focused on the G-spot (treble) or a deep rumbling sensation, should you want to use it in or on other parts of the body. Admittedly, there’s a lot going on here, so it’s the perfect vibrator to set aside an entire afternoon so you can dig deep and explore.

USB-A rechargeable, made from premium ABS silicone. Great for all bodies, internal and external.

Courtesy of DameDame

Fin 2.0

$49Amazon

$59Dame

For those who loved the Dame Fin, good news: Fin 2.0 has arrived. Slicker in appearance and with two more intensities to choose from (making it five now, instead of three), the Fin 2.0 may as well teach a master class. With your favorite water-based lube, the Fin can seamlessly move across the body, stimulating everything from the earlobes to the nipples to that spot on the inner thigh that makes so many people squirm in ecstasy. When you’re ready to take things up a notch, it can bring your sexual pleasure journey to fruition—in other words, orgasm.

USB-C rechargeable, made with medical-grade silicone. Great for all external erogenous zones.

Photograph: SatisfyerSatisfyer

Pro 2 Gen 3 Air Pulse Toy

$70Amazon

$90Satisfyer

The Satisfyer Pro 2 Gen 3 (9/10, WPT123 Recommends) lives up to its name. It’s versatile, powerful, and surprisingly gentle. The whole body of the Gen 3 is covered in soft silicone, so it’s easier to grip than the previous versions made of ABS plastic. The buttons are all conveniently located along the back of the toy, right about where your fingertips naturally fall.

It’s a refined version of a tried and true design, and it feels like it. There’s a level of care and craftsmanship in the build of this toy I appreciate. It’s also a suction vibrator in that it has two attachments, with each one offering two completely different sensations: the new Liquid Air Technology or the more traditional vibration feeling, which is a fun change of pace. The Gen 3 also features built-in vibration functionality. The third button on the toy cycles through vibration patterns that can heighten things when you’re in the thick of it. Read our Best Clitoral Suction Toys guide for more picks.

Mouth is made from silicone, body is made from plastic. Great for all genitals.

Photograph: DameDame

Com Wand Vibrator

$119Amazon

$125$90(28% off)Dame

Dame’s take on the classic magic wand (8/10, WPT123 Recommends) introduces a new angle on an old favorite—literally. Most wands are straight, and nothing on the human body is straight, so using them to reach your most sensitive areas can be pretty awkward. The Com offers an elegant solution. The wand handle is angled ergonomically, so the toy does all the reaching for you. The battery life could use some work, though; you’ll get about an hour out of a single charge, but that’s also why no one should ever own just one wand vibrator. Not only should your vibrators always be fully charged, but it’s important to have something else on standby and ready to finish the job that another toy might have been unable to do.

Made from platinum-cured medical-grade silicone. Great for diffuse stimulation to the vulva, phallus, or sore muscles.

Photograph: Le WandLe Wand

Die Cast Vibrating Massager

$220$132(40% off)Le Wand

Le Wand’s Die Cast Wand Vibrator (8/10, WPT123 Recommends) is as big as it is powerful. Almost as heavy as a Maglite flashlight, this vibrator is a great pick for anyone who wants the most powerful vibrations you can get from a cordless vibrator. Even on its lowest intensity setting, it’s powerful, but that makes it an excellent choice for indirect stimulation. It’s strong enough to feel fully through clothes, and the ultra-strong vibrations travel far and wide through your body and deep under your skin.

The size is also a plus. The Le Wand feels hefty and durable—the die-cast aluminum exterior feels nice and cool—and because of its length, it’s easy to use in different positions. This is a toy that encourages creativity, but if you have an extra sensitive clitoris—or are extra sensitive anywhere—please start at the very lowest vibration setting with this wand. Its power can initially border on shocking (read: life-changing) in a good way.

Aluminum exterior, body-safe silicone head. Great for all genitals and erogenous zones.

Photograph: CoconuCoconu

Wave Massager

$50Coconu

The Coconu Wave (8/10, WPT123 Recommends) is one of my favorite vibrators. It’s asymmetrical, with a flat cut-out on one side, giving you a variety of rounded and pointed corners to use for stimulation. It’s shaped like a raindrop, with a curved tip that does a great job of concentrating the vibrations it produces.

The body is clad in platinum-cured silicone, and it’s soft and squishy to the touch. The silicone used on the Wave takes lube extremely well; even a couple of drops of water-based lube make the exterior of the Wave take on a texture sort of like the inside of your cheek. Slick but not squeaky or sticky.

Made from platinum-cured silicone. Great for all erogenous zones.

Photograph: UnboundUnbound

Bender

$69Amazon

$71Ulta

$71Unbound

The Bender is unique because it’s so flexible and allows you to get creative if you’re alone or with a partner (or two). You can easily shape it to fit your body in so many ways. One minute, it’s the ultimate G-spot stimulator, while the next it’s reaching deep, heading toward the A-spot, or as we call it in the biz, the anterior fornix erogenous zone. Then, with more twists and turns, you’ve got yourself a clitoral vibrator. There’s no end to such high-quality, luxurious magic that comes with Bender! It’s also waterproof, and while the vibrations aren’t as powerful as a wand-style vibrator, they’re buzzy enough to make an impact, especially for those who find many vibrators to be too intense to the touch. It’s also super quiet, even at its highest setting.

Best for vulvas and phalluses, made from unspecified silicone.

Photograph: MotorbunnyMotorbunny

Buck

$1,799Motorbunny

There are generally two kinds of at-home sex machines. Ones that have a toy on the end of a robotic thrusting arm and ones that you sit on like a saddle while it vibrates the seat and the attached toy. The Motorbunny Buck pulls double duty (8/10 WPT123 Recommends). It’s a Sybian-style machine that can also thrust.

The Buck has a vibrating seat with a toy attachment oriented vertically and provides a back-and-forth motion. You can control both kinds of stimulation from the included controller, and honestly, it provides sensations you can’t get from any other toy. It’s truly a unique experience. The dual functionality makes it a great pick for anyone curious about at-home sex machines, because no matter what, these things are expensive. With this one, you at least get twice the bang for your buck.

Attachments are made from unspecified silicone. Great for all genitals, internal and external stimulation.

Photograph: AmazonLe Wand

Deux

$125Amazon

$125$69(45% off)Le Wand

I know that too often people think of bullet vibrators as something that only people with vulvas or, more specifically, a clitoris can use and enjoy. But breaking news: Bullet vibrators can (and should) be used by everyone. Because of this, I’d be remiss not to include one of my favorite bullets of ever: Le Wand Deux. I will never stop singing the praises of this gem. Its delicious 15 vibration modes and six intensity levels have a design that hugs the clitoris and nipples during stimulation. It can also be used on the frenulum, perineum, and around the outside of the anus as you turn up the frisky dial during your playtime.

Made from food-grade silicone, tested to FDA standards. Great for all bodies.

Courtesy of LeloLelo

Personal Moisturizer Water-Based Lube

$35Lelo

$35$24(31% off)Amazon

$22Walmart

$22Target

While there are a lot of lubes on the market and everyone has their absolute favorite, if you’re new to lubes, it’s best to keep things simple. That’s why Lelo’s Personal Moisturizer is a fantastic option. Water-based, unscented, and not full of unnecessary ingredients that can irritate sensitive skin, this lube stays slick and slippery without becoming sticky the way some water-based lubes can. It’s also pH-balanced to match your skin and is free of parabens and glycerine.

Read our Best Lubes guide for other picks, including silicone and natural oil-based lubes.

Lovense Osci 3

Photograph: LovenseWe test a lot of sex toys and accessories here at WPT123, and there isn’t enough room in one list for all of our favorite picks. There’s barely enough room on this list for all the toys we’d consider phenomenal, let alone the ones we consider the absolute best. So here are some other products that are great in their own right and worth checking out.

Lovense Osci 3 Rabbit Vibrator for $99: Rabbit vibrators are often associated with vulvas because they simultaneously stimulate the G-spot and clitoris, but the flexibility of the Lovense Osci 3 (7/10, WPT123 Review) makes it so anyone can use it. I have friends with phalluses who love rabbits because of the dual stimulation: the long arm can penetrate the anus while the shorter arm rests against the perineum delivering intense vibrations. A lot is going on with Osci 3, and it’s full of features worth exploring, so I highly recommend it to anyone who loves bells and whistles.

Crave Wink+ Bullet Vibrator for $79: For years, my favorite bullet vibe was Le Wand Deux, but with Crave Wink+, I’ve finally met a bullet that is currently rivaling my love for the Deux. Made of gorgeous body-safe, nickel-free stainless steel, the Wink+ offers four vibration intensities and one pattern mode, is 100 percent waterproof, and when fully charged and used at its highest speed, you can get up to a whopping five hours of playtime with this bad boy. It’s truly remarkable and I know it will be on my nightstand for a very, very long time.

Dame Hug Cock Ring for $75: If you thought cock rings needed to be a super-snug fit to deliver the benefits they offer, think again. With the Hug (9/10, WPT123 Recommends), Dame’s first foray into toys for penis-havers, the fit isn’t just comfortable, but easily adjustable thanks to the pinchable arms. Its design not only stimulates the penis and scrotum when rolling solo, but when used with a partner, the Hug is perfectly shaped to stimulate the clitoris during penetration.

What’s Your Sex Toy Made Of?

Photograph: Getty Images Throughout this guide, we reference the different materials these sex toys are made of, and there’s a good reason for that. It’s notoriously difficult to pin down exactly what materials some sex toy manufacturers use and how safe those are for contact with your most sensitive body parts. This is due to FDA regulations and how they classify sex toys: medical devices or novelty. The former category requires rigorous testing and standards, whereas the latter makes it easier to get products into the market. There are a few sure bets, though. You want your sex toys to be, first and foremost, nonporous. A porous material will be almost impossible to fully clean and will degrade the product and house more and more bacteria over time. Secondly, you want it made of materials that will not shed chemicals, plastics, or other materials during regular use. The materials that generally fit that bill are surgical steel (316 or 316L steel), borosilicate glass, and silicone.

Silicone is one of the trickier materials because there are so many ways it can be made, and so many different testing standards in parts of the world. Frankly, there aren’t enough studies that test which kinds of silicone are safest. There are a couple that have a solid body of research behind them, along with some common testing standards: Platinum-cured silicone and food-grade silicone. Food-grade is a label regulated by the FDA, and it means the silicone has been tested to make sure it doesn’t leach harmful chemicals into food. Crave cofounder Michael Topolovac says, “Once you go below food grade, a lot of things come into play that are hard to verify.” Platinum-cured silicone is safer than standard (peroxide-cured) silicone because the chemicals used to make the silicone are more completely consumed during the process, leaving nothing behind to leach into your body. Platinum-cured silicones are surprisingly odorless for this reason.

Medical grade is a label you’ll see pretty often, but if it’s not backed up with the specific regulatory body or testing standard used to determine that it’s medical grade, it leaves me wondering why that hasn’t been disclosed. If the manufacturer specifies which kind of silicone it uses, we will list it in the product description. If it’s unclear, we’ll list it as unspecified silicone. That doesn’t mean it’s bad! It just means the specific kind used in that toy isn’t listed or hasn’t been provided to us.

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